Sex with my wife is always a turn on, that didn't change when she was pregnant. I wasn't trying to get into an argument about BC, I was simply speaking from my experience. The other one was a woman I worked with and the baby daddy was not in the picture, she also got very horny during her pregnancy. Either a fetus is considered a live human being or not, you can't just change the definition to suit the mood or agenda. I have always found my wife incredibly sexy, but I'd say that she was the least sexy during pregnancy. I figured I had nothing to lose and a lot to gain. And that is because men joke, not talk, about sex.
My wife frequently complains about her post-pregnancy body. I rehearsed a lot of Dad jokes during those 9 months. Only issue you will run into is that it's a little awkward for the female as is everything with pregnancy! If you have a 0. She may struggle with self-esteem and feel unattractive due to weight gain. Doubt all that you want but what should I do?