She may object for any number of reasons. We worked it into our sex routine. Buy This Stuff all merchandise sell your stuff. Is she afraid of pain? Holly is the author of Severe d: He said that he had done it before and really liked it, but he didn't put too much pressure on me about it.
And more honestly, as good as it felt, I am not in a hurry to do it again. It will be in your best interest to put lube on both places your anus and the object being inserted. Stories Poems Story Series. She looked over her shoulder and "Are you ready?
You need to be very very aroused via other means before anal penetration is attempted. Just talk about it with him one night. Login or Sign Up. I see this view as wrong and selfish, I feel that both should want to be pleased in the marriage bed and if one is doing an act they resent it will destroy intimacy…….
Does she have any sexual fantasies of her own? By the time we actually did it, I felt like I was a butt sex expert, even though I hadn't gone through with it yet. Just the act of stripping down and lathering each other up may get her in the mood to experiment. When it's time to enter, use lots of lube. If she's afraid of getting dirty — not sexy-freaky dirty but stains-on-the-sheets dirty — invite her to take a nice, steamy shower or bath with you first. Latest in Ask Athena Ask Athena: